Recently separated? How to ensure a smooth and enjoyable Christmas for you and your family.

Christmas is a time for celebration, so make sure your separation doesn’t affect your Christmas cheer this year.

Dealing with separation over Christmas

Everyone enjoys their traditions at Christmas – whether it is Christmas Ham and salad, BBQ on the deck or lovely roast pork & turkey cooked in the oven with the aircon on full blast!

If you are recently separated, this year there will be new traditions. Whilst separation can be hard on the children, for some, there will at least be the thrill of having Santa visit twice!

However your children may spend time over the Christmas period with you and your former partner, it is important that, as much as possible, arrangements are made in advance to help make it a great time for them and reduce any prospect of stress for you. You deserve to be happy too!

So, what can you do to help ensure a smooth Christmas that your children can enjoy?

The key is planning, preparation and communication. Here is some helpful tips to get you through the holiday season:

– Communicate with your former partner what the agreement is for Christmas (the time for changeover, who is dropping or who is collecting your children etc.).

– Communicate with your children, ask them what they enjoy the most about Christmas and try to make it happen (remembering of course, that you are the parent! If it’s just not possible for a request to happen – communicate that with them).

– Communicate the arrangement with your family and visitors so they aren’t surprised when the kids pack up to leave for time with the other parent.

– Plan your day so that you have something to do after the children have left to spend time with your former partner. Surround yourself with friends or family or give yourself a special treat.

– Prepare as much as you can the day before so precious moments with your children aren’t wasted running around the house cleaning and cooking to be ready for Christmas celebrations.

Just remember – Christmas should be a happy time for you and your children. Try not to let your children pick up on any stress you may feel. A stressed parent means an anxious child and the only thing your kids should be anxious about, is whether or not Santa will be coming!

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How long does it take to obtain a property settlement? Find out from the Property Settlement Brisbane Lawyers.

Considering obtaining a property settlement? Wondering how long it will take? Find out from the Property Settlement Brisbane Lawyers. 

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There is no precise answer to this question as the time it takes will depend upon a number of factors, including how willing you and your former partner are to negotiate a settlement and how long it takes for parties to provide the necessary information as well as financial documents that each party must give the other party.

If you and your former partner have already agreed how the property pool will be divided and can quickly provide the required information and documents, we find that it generally takes from 3-6 months to finalise a property settlement.

If no agreement can be reached and it becomes necessary to bring an Application for property settlement before the Court, the time involved will likely be considerably longer. This is so unless a final settlement is agreed soon after the action is started. You should bear in mind that you and your former partner may still reach an agreement and finally settle property, bringing any legal action to an end.

To find out more about property settlement Brisbane, click here. We have a range of useful blogs and resources to help you learn more about the property settlement process, and to help you choose what solution will work best for you. Or, if you would like some personalised advice, you can give us a call today to receive a free 15 minute consultation. We can give you the guidance and support you need to start your journey forward.